He pinched the bridge of his nose, mostly because he needed a moment to think as he leaned against the table.

"You're right. You're still fundamentally you. But you're sixteen right now. You haven't gone through all the experiences future you will go through and unless your future self told detailed stories of what you were like at this age, she has no idea what a sixteen year-old Peter Parker looks like either." Probably, anyways.

"I'm not saying don't be there for her. You should. I'm saying, don't put all the weight on yourself. And... and if you're enjoying it, that's okay too. You're also allowed to be happy about this." Even if the roles were refused, Alec would be terrified.